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Stephanie Van Eps |
I learned to play guitar when I was about 17. My dad, who
plays guitar and piano and really any other musical instrument you put in front
of him, bought me my first guitar. It was second hand and had a crack in the
neck, which made it incredibly difficult to stay tuned, but I played it
constantly. I had always loved to sing (nothing publically, I’m talking like,
during worship or in the shower, or in my car) but as I learned more and more
on my guitar I really began to crave worship and not just singing. I would play
between (college) classes, I would write songs, usually during those same
classes, and my daily time in God’s word began including a worship time. It became a conversation starter between the
Lord and me; I felt something, but didn’t know how to talk about or pray about,
so I sang it out. It was powerful and
intimate and completely mine.
During college, my best friend, and roommate, Sarah and I
would play and sing together. We would lead worship for our discipleship group,
or for friends. We wrote songs together and recorded and performed a few. We
even sang at my Wedding reception (a sweet song I wrote from letters my
adorable husband had written me while we were dating.) But Sarah was always the
first guitar, the first voice. And when I lead worship with other people, I
always just followed, or sang harmony. I was totally fine with that; totally
comfortable. I had no desire to perform, to be in front of people. I just liked
to worship. In fact most times, I was terrified to play and sing in front of
people. I would avoid it at all costs, I would even make my husband turn around
and turn off the lights if he wanted to listen to me play. I’m being totally
serious. We had a strict “no eye contact” rule.
So a year and half ago during a Women’s Ministry meeting
when the concept of having a women’s Night of Worship was birthed, I’m not
really sure what lead me to admit that I played guitar. And I have no idea, why
a room full of women who had never heard me play or sing completely entrusted
me to lead this new ministry, but they did. For the next 6 weeks leading up to
the first Night of Worship I thought of everything I could to get out of it. I
wanted so badly to call Susan and tell her that I couldn’t do it, I wasn’t
right for the job and she needed to find someone else. But in the midst of
feeling totally scared and wanting to throw up every time, I thought about it,
I could feel the Lord pouring HIS confidence in me. When I thought “I can’t do
this,” He would say “Yes, you can.” When I would hear, “They’re not going to
like you. You sing different. You are not talented enough to lead a whole night
of worship,” God would tell me, “It doesn’t matter what you sound like or how
much talent you have, this night isn’t about you.” He never let me go. He was
never quiet. He talked over the voice in my head constantly, and He reminded me
to lean into HIM to get through my fear.
As I obeyed and continue to obey, the Lord has not taken
away my fear of performing. I still pretty much feel like puking the whole week
before a Night of Worship. And when I finally get up there, I am shaking and my
hands are sweaty. But He is teaching me that all He wants from me is my heart.
My love for worship and my willingness to obey Him is all He needs to do some
work. As HE stretches me, He also rewards me. I can not express in words what
it does to my heart, my core, my very being to look out in the middle of song
and see a crowd of women responding to their God. In that moment I am not
scared, I am not proud of myself, I am just blessed to be doing the very thing
that our Lord has created me for, worship. Privately or publically My God
created me to worship Him. It’s awesome.
I love love the way you sing! It inspires worship in others! Thank you for being obedient to God's calling!
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